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To Marry or Not to Marry? (Part 3 of 4)

1 Corinthians 7:25–40
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Knowing that we’ll live forever should change our priorities and our view of relationships. So how do we prioritize God and His work without neglecting marriage and family? Is it better to stay single? Hear the answers on Truth For Life with Alistair Begg.

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To Marry or Not to Marry? — Part Two

1 Corinthians 7:25–40 Sermon Includes Transcript 38:31 ID: 1644

Will He Find Fruit?

Will He Find Fruit?

Seeing in the distance a fig tree in leaf, he went to see if he could find anything on it. When he came to it, he found nothing but leaves, for it was not the season for figs. And he said to it, “May no one ever eat fruit from you again.” And his disciples heard it.

Here is a narrative which “bristles with difficulties.”[1]

What’s staggering about Jesus cursing a fig tree here is that this is a miracle of destruction. Everything else that we see Jesus doing up to this point in Mark’s Gospel has been a miracle of transformation or of restoration. Since this is a complete aberration in contrast with Jesus’ other actions, we need to dig deeper into its significance.

In the Old Testament, both the vine and the fig tree are routinely used as metaphors to describe the Israelites’ status before God. When good fruit is growing from the vine or the tree, all is well; when bad fruit or no fruit is growing, God’s people have gone astray.

As Jesus observed the utter emptiness that was represented in the religious activities at that time, these words of the prophet Micah may have come to His mind: “Woe is me! For I have become as when the summer fruit has been gathered, as when the grapes have been gleaned: there is no cluster to eat, no first-ripe fig that my soul desires” (Micah 7:1).

Jesus’ cursing of a fig tree, then, was far from arbitrary. This scene was an acted parable of prophetic symbolism. He used the fig tree to demonstrate the judgment that was about to fall on Jerusalem. Jesus had come to the center of religious life looking for prayerfulness and fruitfulness and had discovered neither. The barren fig tree was emblematic of a ceremonial, religious legalism that claimed to satisfy the hungry heart and to please God, but when the people committed themselves to such religion, there was nothing there to satisfy—and this act of the divine Son shows that God was far from pleased.

Does this prophetic warning hold any significance for us, who live so far away from fig trees and temples? Yes! The challenge to bear good fruit is for us as well. Yet we must also beware confusing religious observances or rule-keeping self-righteousness with true fruit. God’s people are always in danger of an empty legalism replacing a vibrant relationship. What is the way to heed the warning of the withered fig tree? Elsewhere, Jesus tells us, “Every branch in me that does not bear fruit [the Father] takes away … I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing” (John 15:2, 5). In other words, we must look not to do better but to know Jesus more.

Is any aspect of what this fig tree represents true of your life? When Jesus comes and searches us, will He find fruit on our branches? Will He find faith? Remain humbly connected to Jesus, our Vine, and His Spirit will grow in you the very fruit for which He is looking.

Questions for Thought

How is God calling me to think differently?

How is God reordering my heart’s affections — what I love?

What is God calling me to do as I go about my day today?

Further Reading

I Am the True Vine

1“I am the rtrue vine, and my Father is sthe vinedresser. 2tEvery branch in me that does not bear fruit uhe takes away, and every branch that does bear fruit he prunes, vthat it may bear more fruit. 3Already wyou are clean xbecause of the word that I have spoken to you. 4yAbide zin me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me. 5I am the vine; ayou are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bbears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing. 6If anyone does not abide in me che is thrown away like a branch and withers; dand the branches are gathered, thrown into the fire, and burned. 7If eyou abide in me, and my words abide in you, fask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. 8gBy this my Father is glorified, that you hbear much fruit and so prove to be my disciples. 9iAs the Father has loved me, jso have I loved you. Abide in my love. 10kIf you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as lI have kept mmy Father's commandments and abide in his love. 11These things I have spoken to you, nthat my joy may be in you, and that oyour joy may be full.

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1 C. E. B. Cranfield, The Gospel According to Mark,Cambridge Greek Testament Commentary, ed. C.F.D. Moule (1959; reprinted Cambridge University Press, 2000), p 354.

Devotional material is taken from the Truth For Life daily devotionals by Alistair Begg, published by The Good Book Company, thegoodbook.com. Used by Truth For Life with permission. Copyright © 2021, 2022, The Good Book Company.

Christ Is My Teacher

Christ Is My Teacher

Teacher.

If the young man in the Gospel used this title in speaking to our Lord, it is only right that we should address Him in this way. He is indeed my Teacher in that He rules and teaches me. I am glad to run His errands and to sit at His feet. I am both His servant and His disciple and count it my highest honor to serve Him in this way. He is a good teacher. If He should ask me why I call Him "good," I could answer easily.

It is true that "no one is good except God alone,"1 but then He is God, and all the goodness of Deity shines in Him. In my experience I have found Him to be good, indeed so good that all the good I have has come to me through Him. He was good to me when I was dead in sin, for He raised me by His Spirit's power; He has been good to me in all my needs, trials, struggles, and sorrows. There could never be a better Teacher, for His service is freedom, His rule is love: I wish I were one thousandth part as good a servant. When He teaches me, He is unspeakably good, His doctrine is divine, His manner is gracious, His spirit is gentleness itself.

There is no error in His instruction: Pure is the golden truth that He presents, and all His teachings lead to goodness, sanctifying as well as edifying the disciple. Angels know that He is good and delight to worship at His footstool. The ancient saints proved Him to be a good Teacher, and each of them rejoiced to sing, "I am Your servant, O Lord!"

My own humble testimony must certainly be to the same effect. I will declare this before my friends and neighbors, for possibly they may be led by my testimony to seek my Lord Jesus as their Teacher. O I long that they might do so! They would never regret the decision. If they would submit to His easy yoke, they would find themselves in such royal service that they would never want to leave. The school of grace rejoices to have such a Teacher!

1) Mark 10:18.

Devotional material is taken from Morning and Evening, written by C. H. Spurgeon, revised and updated by Alistair Begg. Copyright © 2003, Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers, Wheaton, IL 60187, www.crossway.org. Used by Truth For Life with written permission.

Daily Bible Reading for June 2

Deuteronomy 6, Psalm 89, Isaiah 34, Revelation 4

The Greatest Commandment

1“Now this is zthe commandment—the statutes and the rules1—that the Lord your God commanded me to teach you, that you may do them in the land to which you are going over, to possess it, 2that ayou may fear the Lord your God, you and your son and your son's son, by keeping all his statutes and his commandments, which I command you, all the days of your life, and bthat your days may be long. 3Hear therefore, O Israel, and be careful to do them, that it may go well with you, and that you may multiply greatly, cas the Lord, the God of your fathers, has promised you, in a land flowing with milk and honey.

4“Hear, O Israel: dThe Lord our God, the Lord is one.2 5You eshall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. 6And fthese words that I command you today shall be on your heart. 7gYou shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. 8hYou shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. 9iYou shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.

10“And when the Lord your God brings you into the land that he swore to your fathers, to Abraham, to Isaac, and to Jacob, to give you—with great and good cities jthat you did not build, 11and houses full of all good things that you did not fill, and cisterns that you did not dig, and vineyards and olive trees that you did not plant—and when you eat and are full, 12kthen take care lest you forget the Lord, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of slavery. 13It is lthe Lord your God you shall fear. Him you shall serve and mby his name you shall swear. 14You shall not ngo after other gods, othe gods of the peoples who are around you— 15for pthe Lord your God in your midst qis a jealous God—rlest the anger of the Lord your God be kindled against you, and he destroy you from off the face of the earth.

16s“You shall not put the Lord your God to the test, tas you tested him at Massah. 17You shall udiligently keep the commandments of the Lord your God, and his testimonies and his statutes, which he has commanded you. 18vAnd you shall do what is right and good in the sight of the Lord, that it may go well with you, and that you may go in and take possession of the good land that the Lord swore to give to your fathers 19wby thrusting out all your enemies from before you, as the Lord has promised.

20x“When your son asks you in time to come, ‘What is the meaning of the testimonies and the statutes and the rules that the Lord our God has commanded you?’ 21then you shall say to your son, y‘We were Pharaoh's slaves in Egypt. And the Lord brought us out of Egypt with a mighty hand. 22And zthe Lord showed signs and wonders, great and grievous, against Egypt and against Pharaoh and all his household, before our eyes. 23And he brought us out from there, that he might bring us in and give us the land that he swore to give to our fathers. 24And the Lord commanded us to do all these statutes, ato fear the Lord our God, bfor our good always, that che might preserve us alive, as we are this day. 25And dit will be righteousness for us, if we are careful to do all this commandment before the Lord our God, as he has commanded us.’

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Footnotes
1 6:1 Or just decrees; also verse 20
2 6:4 Or The Lord our God is one Lord; or The Lord is our God, the Lord is one; or The Lord is our God, the Lord alone

I Will Sing of the Steadfast Love of the Lord

A Maskil1 of hEthan the Ezrahite.

1iI will sing of jthe steadfast love of the Lord, forever;

with my mouth I will make known your kfaithfulness to all generations.

2For I said, j“Steadfast love will be built up forever;

in the heavens lyou will establish your kfaithfulness.”

3You have said, “I have made ma covenant with my nchosen one;

I have osworn to David my servant:

4‘I will establish your poffspring forever,

and build your qthrone for all generations.’” Selah

5Let rthe heavens praise your swonders, O Lord,

your faithfulness in the assembly of tthe holy ones!

6For uwho in the skies can be compared to the Lord?

uWho among the heavenly beings2 is like the Lord,

7a God greatly vto be feared in the council of tthe holy ones,

and awesome above all wwho are around him?

8O Lord God of hosts,

xwho is mighty as you are, O yLord,

with your faithfulness all around you?

9You rule the raging of the sea;

when its waves rise, you zstill them.

10You acrushed bRahab like a carcass;

you cscattered your enemies with your mighty arm.

11dThe heavens are yours; the earth also is yours;

ethe world and all that is in it, you have ffounded them.

12gThe north and the south, you have created them;

hTabor and iHermon jjoyously praise your name.

13You have a mighty arm;

strong is your hand, high your right hand.

14kRighteousness and justice are the foundation of your throne;

lsteadfast love and faithfulness go before you.

15Blessed are the people who know mthe festal shout,

who walk, O Lord, in nthe light of your face,

16who exult in your oname all the day

and in your righteousness are pexalted.

17For you are qthe glory of their strength;

by your favor our rhorn is exalted.

18For our sshield belongs to the Lord,

our king to tthe Holy One of Israel.

19uOf old you spoke in a vision to your godly one,3 and said:

“I have vgranted help to one who is wmighty;

I have exalted one xchosen from the people.

20yI have found David, my servant;

with my holy oil I have zanointed him,

21so that my ahand shall be established with him;

my arm also shall strengthen him.

22The enemy shall not outwit him;

bthe wicked shall not humble him.

23I will ccrush his foes before him

and strike down those who hate him.

24My dfaithfulness and my dsteadfast love shall be with him,

and in my name shall his ehorn be exalted.

25I will set his hand on fthe sea

and his right hand on fthe rivers.

26He shall cry to me, ‘You are my gFather,

my God, and hthe Rock of my salvation.’

27And I will make him the ifirstborn,

jthe highest of the kings of the earth.

28My steadfast love I will keep for him forever,

and my kcovenant will stand firm4 for him.

29I will establish his loffspring forever

and his lthrone as mthe days of the heavens.

30nIf his children forsake my law

and do not walk according to my rules,5

31if they violate my statutes

and do not keep my commandments,

32then I will punish their transgression with othe rod

and their iniquity with stripes,

33but I will not remove from him my steadfast love

or be false to my faithfulness.

34I will not violate my kcovenant

or alter the word that went forth from my lips.

35Once for all I have sworn pby my holiness;

I will not qlie to David.

36His loffspring shall endure forever,

rhis lthrone as long as sthe sun before me.

37Like sthe moon it shall be established forever,

ta faithful witness in the skies.” Selah

38But now you have ucast off and rejected;

you are full of wrath against your vanointed.

39You have wrenounced xthe covenant with your servant;

you have ydefiled his zcrown in the dust.

40You have abreached all his walls;

you have laid his strongholds in ruins.

41aAll who pass by plunder him;

he has become bthe scorn of his neighbors.

42You have exalted the right hand of his foes;

you have made all his enemies rejoice.

43You have also turned back the edge of his sword,

and you have not made him stand in battle.

44You have made his splendor to cease

and cast his throne to the ground.

45You have cut short cthe days of his youth;

you have dcovered him with shame. Selah

46eHow long, O Lord? Will you hide yourself forever?

How long will your wrath fburn like fire?

47gRemember hhow short my itime is!

For what vanity you have created all the children of man!

48jWhat man can live and never ksee death?

Who can deliver his soul from the power of lSheol? Selah

49Lord, where is your msteadfast love of old,

which by your mfaithfulness you swore to David?

50nRemember, O Lord, how your servants are mocked,

and how I bear in my oheart the insults6 of all the many nations,

51with which your enemies mock, O Lord,

with which they mock pthe footsteps of your qanointed.

52rBlessed be the Lord forever!

Amen and Amen.

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Footnotes
1 89:1 Probably a musical or liturgical term
2 89:6 Hebrew the sons of God, or the sons of might
3 89:19 Some Hebrew manuscripts godly ones
4 89:28 Or will remain faithful
5 89:30 Or my just decrees
6 89:50 Hebrew lacks the insults

Judgment on the Nations

1Draw near, vO nations, to hear,

and give attention, O peoples!

Let the earth hear, and all that fills it;

the world, and all that comes from it.

2For the Lord is enraged against all the nations,

and furious against all their host;

he has wdevoted them to destruction,1 has given them over for slaughter.

3Their slain shall be cast out,

and xthe stench of their corpses shall rise;

ythe mountains shall flow with their blood.

4zAll the host of heaven shall rot away,

and the skies roll up like a scroll.

All their host shall fall,

as leaves fall from the vine,

like leaves falling from the fig tree.

5For my sword has drunk its fill in the heavens;

behold, it descends for judgment upon aEdom,

upon the people bI have devoted to destruction.

6The Lord has a sword; it is sated with blood;

it is gorged with fat,

with the blood of lambs and goats,

with the fat of the kidneys of rams.

cFor the Lord has a sacrifice in Bozrah,

a great slaughter in the land of Edom.

7dWild oxen shall efall with them,

and fyoung steers with fthe mighty bulls.

Their land shall drink its fill of blood,

and their soil shall be gorged with fat.

8gFor the Lord has a day of vengeance,

a year of recompense for the cause of Zion.

9hAnd the streams of Edom2 shall be turned into pitch,

and her soil into sulfur;

her land shall become burning pitch.

10Night and day iit shall not be quenched;

jits smoke shall go up forever.

kFrom generation to generation it shall lie waste;

none shall pass through it forever and ever.

11lBut the hawk and the porcupine3 shall possess it,

the owl and the raven shall dwell in it.

mHe shall stretch the line of nconfusion4 over it,

and the plumb line of emptiness.

12Its nobles—there is no one there to call it a kingdom,

and all its princes shall be nothing.

13oThorns shall grow over its strongholds,

nettles and thistles in its fortresses.

It shall be the haunt of pjackals,

an abode for ostriches.5

14qAnd wild animals shall meet with hyenas;

the wild goat shall cry to his fellow;

indeed, there the night bird6 settles

and finds for herself a resting place.

15There the owl nests and lays

and hatches and gathers her young in her shadow;

indeed, there rthe hawks are gathered,

each one with her mate.

16Seek and read from the book of the Lord:

Not one of these shall be missing;

none shall be without her mate.

For the mouth of the Lord has commanded,

and his Spirit has gathered them.

17sHe has cast the lot for them;

his hand has portioned it out to them with the line;

they shall possess it forever;

from generation to generation they shall dwell in it.

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1 34:2 That is, set apart (devoted) as an offering to the Lord (for destruction); also verse 5
2 34:9 Hebrew her streams
3 34:11 The identity of the animals rendered hawk and porcupine is uncertain
4 34:11 Hebrew formlessness
5 34:13 Or owls
6 34:14 Identity uncertain

The Throne in Heaven

1After this I looked, and behold, a door standing open in heaven! And the first voice, which I had heard speaking to me flike a trumpet, said, g“Come up here, and hI will show you what must take place after this.” 2At once iI was in the Spirit, and behold, ja throne stood in heaven, with one seated on the throne. 3And he who sat there had the appearance of kjasper and carnelian, and around the throne was la rainbow that had the appearance of an emerald. 4Around the throne were mtwenty-four thrones, and seated on the thrones were twenty-four elders, nclothed in white garments, with ogolden crowns on their heads. 5From the throne came pflashes of lightning, and rumblings1 and peals of thunder, and before the throne were burning qseven torches of fire, rwhich are the seven spirits of God, 6and before the throne there was sas it were a sea of glass, like crystal.

And around the throne, on each side of the throne, are tfour living creatures, ufull of eyes in front and behind: 7vthe first living creature like a lion, the second living creature like an ox, the third living creature with the face of a man, and the fourth living creature like an eagle in flight. 8And the four living creatures, weach of them with six wings, are xfull of eyes all around and within, and yday and night they never cease to say,

z“Holy, holy, holy, is the Lord God Almighty,

awho was and is and is to come!”

9And whenever the living creatures give glory and honor and thanks to him who is seated on the throne, bwho lives forever and ever, 10the twenty-four elders cfall down before him who is seated on the throne and worship him who lives forever and ever. They cast dtheir crowns before the throne, saying,

11e“Worthy are you, our Lord and God,

to receive glory and honor and power,

for fyou created all things,

and gby your will they existed and were created.”

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1 4:5 Or voices, or sounds
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