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Proverbs 13:3
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A chainsaw is a powerful tool. Used correctly, it makes carpentry or tree pruning easier and faster. Used carelessly, it can do more damage than good. On Truth For Life, Alistair Begg points out how words can similarly be used to either help or harm.

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Proverbs 13:3 Sermon Includes Transcript 44:21 ID: 2281

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The Gift of Godly Friends

Embarking in a ship of Adramyttium, which was about to sail to the ports along the coast of Asia, we put to sea, accompanied by Aristarchus, a Macedonian from Thessalonica. The next day we put in at Sidon. And Julius treated Paul kindly and gave him leave to go to his friends and be cared for.

The day had dawned, and Paul’s great longing to go to Rome was nearing its realization. He was one of a number of prisoners whose destination was the city at the center of the known world. But at the outset of their journey, Luke provides us with details that appear at first glance to be extraneous and irrelevant. He and Paul, he tells us, were “accompanied by Aristarchus, a Macedonian from Thessalonica.”

Aristarchus is not a well-known Bible character. From the few places where he’s mentioned, we know that he was a good man to have around at any time, but especially during difficult times. He first appears in Acts 19:29, where he ends up in harm’s way when Paul and his companions are set upon by a mob. He is also mentioned at the end of Colossians (Colossians 4:10) and of Philemon (Philemon 24). If these two epistles were written from Rome, as is likely, then Aristarchus evidently remained with Paul throughout his entire journey to Rome and his subsequent imprisonment.

The mention of Aristarchus’s presence with Paul reminds us that even this great apostle to the Gentiles was not beyond the need of friendship. Paul is such a significant figure that we may be tempted almost to deify him, assuming that he was above and beyond such “worldly necessities.” But in actual fact, he cherished friendship. When he wrote his second letter to Timothy at the end of his life, he finished the epistle by asking not only for scrolls and his cloak (2 Timothy 4:13) but also the quick arrival of Timothy (v 9). The scrolls would stimulate his mind. His cloak would deal with the cold. But he needed Timothy because, to Paul, friendship really mattered.

Paul’s need for friendship is revealed again when Luke tells us that, upon reaching Sidon on the way to Rome, Paul was allowed by the centurion overseeing the prisoners “to go to his friends and be cared for.” Was it out of place for the mighty apostle to be cared for by others? Not at all! Paul embraced his weakness and dependence on others because he knew that Christ’s “power is made perfect in weakness” (2 Corinthians 12:9).

The sooner we discover how weak we really are, the sooner we learn the value of friendship. No matter how strong or gifted you may be, you are not Superman. If this mighty apostle needed companions in his life, then you do as well. Friendship is a wonderful gift that God has given so that you might be encouraged and supported as you journey through this life. Today, then, consider the godly friends that the Lord has placed around you. Offer thanks for their love and support. And above all, pray for their endurance and encouragement in the faith, knowing that just as you need them to point you to Christ, so they need you.

Questions for Thought

How is God calling me to think differently?

How is God reordering my heart’s affections — what I love?

What is God calling me to do as I go about my day today?

Further Reading

5cBetter is open rebuke

than hidden love.

6Faithful are dthe wounds of a friend;

profuse are the kisses of an enemy.

7One who is full loathes ehoney,

but to one who is hungry everything bitter is sweet.

8Like fa bird that strays from its nest

is a man who strays from his home.

9gOil and perfume make the heart glad,

and the sweetness of a friend comes from his earnest counsel.1

10Do not forsake your friend and hyour father's friend,

and do not go to your brother's house in the day of your calamity.

iBetter is a neighbor who is near

than a brother who is far away.

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1 27:9 Or and so does the sweetness of a friend that comes from his earnest counsel

Devotional material is taken from the Truth For Life daily devotionals by Alistair Begg, published by The Good Book Company, thegoodbook.com. Used by Truth For Life with permission. Copyright © 2021, 2022, The Good Book Company.

Just a Little Longer

Just a Little Longer

Weeping may tarry for the night,
but joy comes with the morning.

Christian, if you are in a night of trial, think of tomorrow; cheer up your heart with the thought of the coming of your Lord. Be patient, for “Lo! He comes with clouds descending.” Be patient! The farmer waits until He reaps His harvest.

Be patient; for you know who has said, “Behold, I am coming soon, bringing my recompense with Me, to repay everyone for what he has done.” If you are presently in wretched circumstances, remember:

A few more days of marching into battle,
Then you will receive the crown.

Your head may be bowed with thorny troubles now, but it shall wear a starry crown before long. Your heart may be filled with care—it shall be filled with the praise of heaven soon. Your clothes may be soiled with dust now; soon they shall be gloriously white. Wait a little longer. How trivial our troubles and trials will seem when we look back upon them! Looking at them here in the prospect, they seem immense; but when we get to heaven we shall view everything from a new perspective.

Our trials will then seem light and momentary afflictions. Let us go on boldly; even if the night be ever so dark, the morning comes, which is more than they can say who are shut up in the darkness of hell. Do you know what it is then to live on the future—to live on expectation—to anticipate heaven? You are happy, believer, to have such a sure and comforting hope. It may be all dark now, but it will soon be light; it may be all trial now, but it will soon be all happiness. What does it matter if “weeping may tarry for the night” when “joy comes with the morning”?

Devotional material is taken from Morning and Evening, written by C. H. Spurgeon, revised and updated by Alistair Begg. Copyright © 2003, Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers, Wheaton, IL 60187, www.crossway.org. Used by Truth For Life with written permission.

Daily Bible Reading for May 13

Numbers 22, Psalm 62, Psalm 63, Isaiah 11, Isaiah 12, James 5

Balak Summons Balaam

1Then ithe people of Israel set out and camped in the plains of Moab beyond the Jordan at Jericho. 2And jBalak the son of Zippor saw all that Israel had done to the Amorites. 3And kMoab was in great dread of the people, because they were many. Moab was overcome with fear of the people of Israel. 4And Moab said to lthe elders of Midian, “This horde will now lick up all that is around us, as the ox licks up the grass of the field.” So Balak the son of Zippor, who was king of Moab at that time, 5msent messengers to Balaam the son of Beor nat Pethor, which is near the River1 in the land of the people of Amaw,2 to call him, saying, “Behold, a people has come out of Egypt. They cover the face of the earth, and they are dwelling opposite me. 6oCome now, curse this people for me, since they are too mighty for me. Perhaps I shall be able to defeat them and drive them from the land, for I know that he whom you bless is blessed, and he whom you curse is cursed.”

7So the elders of Moab and lthe elders of Midian departed with pthe fees for divination in their hand. And they came to Balaam and gave him Balak's message. 8And he said to them, “Lodge here tonight, and I will bring back word to you, as the Lord speaks to me.” So the princes of Moab stayed with Balaam. 9qAnd God came to Balaam and said, “Who are these men with you?” 10And Balaam said to God, “Balak the son of Zippor, king of Moab, has sent to me, saying, 11‘Behold, a people has come out of Egypt, and it covers the face of the earth. Now come, curse them for me. Perhaps I shall be able to fight against them and drive them out.’” 12God said to Balaam, “You shall not go with them. You shall not curse the people, for rthey are blessed.” 13So Balaam rose in the morning and said to the princes of Balak, “Go to your own land, for the Lord has refused to let me go with you.” 14So the princes of Moab rose and went to Balak and said, “Balaam refuses to come with us.”

15Once again Balak sent princes, more in number and more honorable than these. 16And they came to Balaam and said to him, “Thus says Balak the son of Zippor: ‘Let nothing hinder you from coming to me, 17sfor I will surely do you great honor, and whatever you say to me I will do. tCome, curse this people for me.’” 18But Balaam answered and said to the servants of Balak, u“Though Balak were to give me his house full of silver and gold, vI could not go beyond the command of the Lord my God to do less or more. 19So you, too, wplease stay here tonight, that I may know what more the Lord will say to me.” 20qAnd God came to Balaam at night and said to him, “If the men have come to call you, rise, go with them; xbut only do what I tell you.” 21So Balaam rose in the morning and saddled his donkey and went with the princes of Moab.

Balaam's Donkey and the Angel

22But God's anger was kindled because he went, yand the angel of the Lord took his stand in the way zas his adversary. Now he was riding on the donkey, and his two servants were with him. 23And the donkey saw the angel of the Lord standing in the road, with a drawn sword in his hand. And the donkey turned aside out of the road and went into the field. And Balaam struck the donkey, to turn her into the road. 24Then the angel of the Lord stood in a narrow path between the vineyards, with a wall on either side. 25And when the donkey saw the angel of the Lord, she pushed against the wall and pressed Balaam's foot against the wall. So he struck her again. 26Then the angel of the Lord went ahead and stood in a narrow place, where there was no way to turn either to the right or to the left. 27When the donkey saw the angel of the Lord, she lay down under Balaam. And Balaam's anger was kindled, and he struck the donkey with his staff. 28Then the Lord aopened the mouth of the donkey, and she said to Balaam, “What have I done to you, that you have struck me these three times?” 29And Balaam said to the donkey, “Because you have made a fool of me. I wish I had a sword in my hand, for then I would kill you.” 30And the donkey said to Balaam, “Am I not your donkey, on which you have ridden all your life long to this day? Is it my habit to treat you this way?” And he said, “No.”

31Then the Lord bopened the eyes of Balaam, and he saw the angel of the Lord standing in the way, with his drawn sword in his hand. And he bowed down and fell on his face. 32And the angel of the Lord said to him, “Why have you struck your donkey these three times? Behold, I have come out cto oppose you because your way is perverse3 before me. 33The donkey saw me and turned aside before me these three times. If she had not turned aside from me, surely just now I would have killed you and let her live.” 34Then Balaam said to the angel of the Lord, d“I have sinned, for I did not know that you stood in the road against me. Now therefore, if it is evil in your sight, I will turn back.” 35And the angel of the Lord said to Balaam, “Go with the men, ebut speak only the word that I tell you.” So Balaam went on with the princes of Balak.

36When Balak heard that Balaam had come, he went out to meet him at the city of Moab, fon the border formed by the Arnon, at the extremity of the border. 37And Balak said to Balaam, “Did I not send to you to call you? Why did you not come to me? Am I not able to ghonor you?” 38Balaam said to Balak, “Behold, I have come to you! Have I now any power of my own to speak anything? hThe word that God puts in my mouth, that must I speak.” 39Then Balaam went with Balak, and they came to Kiriath-huzoth. 40And Balak sacrificed oxen and sheep, and sent for Balaam and for the princes who were with him.

41And in the morning Balak took Balaam and brought him up to Bamoth-baal, and from there he saw a fraction of the people.

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1 22:5 That is, the Euphrates
2 22:5 Or the people of his kindred
3 22:32 Or reckless

Psalm 62

My Soul Waits for God Alone

To the choirmaster: according to xJeduthun. A Psalm of David.

1For God alone ymy soul zwaits in silence;

from him comes my salvation.

2aHe alone is my rock and my salvation,

my bfortress; cI shall not be greatly shaken.

3How long will all of you attack a man

to batter him,

like da leaning wall, a tottering fence?

4They only plan to thrust him down from his ehigh position.

They take pleasure in falsehood.

fThey bless with their mouths,

but inwardly they curse. Selah

5For God alone, O ymy soul, wait in silence,

for my hope is from him.

6aHe only is my rock and my salvation,

my fortress; I shall not be shaken.

7On God rests my gsalvation and my glory;

my mighty rock, hmy refuge is God.

8iTrust in him at all times, O people;

jpour out your heart before him;

God is ha refuge for us. Selah

9kThose of low estate are but a breath;

those of high estate lare a delusion;

in the balances they go up;

kthey are together lighter than a breath.

10Put no trust in extortion;

mset no vain hopes on robbery;

nif riches increase, set not your heart on them.

11oOnce God has spoken;

otwice have I heard this:

that ppower belongs to God,

12and that to you, O Lord, qbelongs steadfast love.

For you will rrender to a man

according to his work.

Psalm 63

My Soul Thirsts for You

A Psalm of David, swhen he was in the wilderness of Judah.

1O God, you are my God; tearnestly I seek you;

umy soul thirsts for you;

my flesh faints for you,

as in va dry and weary land where there is no water.

2So I have looked upon you in the sanctuary,

beholding wyour power and glory.

3Because your xsteadfast love is better than life,

my lips will praise you.

4So I will bless you yas long as I live;

in your zname I will alift up my hands.

5My soul will be bsatisfied as with fat and rich food,

and my mouth will praise you with joyful lips,

6when I remember you cupon my bed,

and meditate on you in cthe watches of the night;

7for you have been my help,

and in dthe shadow of your wings I will sing for joy.

8My soul eclings to you;

your right hand fupholds me.

9But those who seek to destroy my life

gshall go down into hthe depths of the earth;

10they shall be given over to the power of the sword;

they shall be a portion for jackals.

11But ithe king shall rejoice in God;

all who jswear by him shall exult,

kfor the mouths of lliars will be stopped.

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Isaiah 11

The Righteous Reign of the Branch

1There shall come forth a shoot from the stump of lJesse,

and a branch from his roots shall bear fruit.

2And mthe Spirit of the Lord shall rest upon him,

the Spirit of wisdom and understanding,

the Spirit of counsel and might,

the Spirit of knowledge and the fear of the Lord.

3And his delight shall be in the fear of the Lord.

nHe shall not judge by owhat his eyes see,

or decide disputes by owhat his ears hear,

4but pwith righteousness he shall judge the poor,

and decide with equity for the meek of the earth;

and he shall qstrike the earth with the rod of his mouth,

and rwith the breath of his lips she shall kill the wicked.

5Righteousness shall be the belt of his waist,

and tfaithfulness the belt of his loins.

6uThe wolf shall dwell with the lamb,

and the leopard shall lie down with the young goat,

and the calf and the lion and the fattened calf together;

and a little child shall lead them.

7The cow and the bear shall graze;

their young shall lie down together;

and the lion shall eat straw like the ox.

8The nursing child shall play over the hole of the cobra,

and the weaned child shall put his hand on the adder's den.

9uThey shall not hurt or destroy

in all vmy holy mountain;

wfor the earth shall be full of the knowledge of the Lord

as the waters cover the sea.

10In that day xthe root of yJesse, who shall stand as za signal for the peoples—of him shall the nations inquire, and his resting place shall be glorious.

11aIn that day the Lord will extend his hand yet a second time to recover the remnant that remains of his people, bfrom Assyria, bfrom Egypt, from cPathros, from dCush,1 from eElam, from fShinar, from gHamath, and from hthe coastlands of the sea.

12He will raise za signal for the nations

and will assemble ithe banished of Israel,

and gather the dispersed of Judah

from the four corners of the earth.

13jThe jealousy of Ephraim shall depart,

and those who harass Judah shall be cut off;

Ephraim shall not be jealous of Judah,

and Judah shall not harass Ephraim.

14kBut they shall swoop down on the shoulder of the Philistines in the west,

and together they shall plunder lthe people of the east.

They shall put out their hand magainst nEdom and oMoab,

and pthe Ammonites shall obey them.

15And the Lord will utterly destroy2

qthe tongue of the Sea of Egypt,

and will wave his hand over rthe River3

with his scorching breath,4

and strike it into seven channels,

and he will lead people across in sandals.

16And there will be sa highway from Assyria

for the remnant that remains of his people,

tas there was for Israel

when they came up from the land of Egypt.

Isaiah 12

The Lord Is My Strength and My Song

1You1 will say uin that day:

“I will give thanks to you, O Lord,

for though you were angry with me,

vyour anger turned away,

that you might comfort me.

2“Behold, God is my salvation;

I will trust, and will not be afraid;

for wthe Lord God2 is my strength and my song,

and he has become my salvation.”

3xWith joy you3 will draw water from the wells of salvation. 4yAnd you will say in that day:

z“Give thanks to the Lord,

call upon his name,

amake known his deeds among the peoples,

proclaim bthat his name is exalted.

5c“Sing praises to the Lord, for he has done gloriously;

let this be made known4 in all the earth.

6Shout, and sing for joy, O inhabitant of Zion,

for great din your5 midst is ethe Holy One of Israel.”

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Footnotes
1 11:11 Probably Nubia
2 11:15 Hebrew devote to destruction
3 11:15 That is, the Euphrates
4 11:15 Or wind
1 12:1 The Hebrew for you is singular in verse 1
2 12:2 Hebrew for Yah, the Lord
3 12:3 The Hebrew for you is plural in verses 3, 4
4 12:5 Or this is made known
5 12:6 The Hebrew for your in verse 6 is singular, referring to the inhabitant of Zion

Warning to the Rich

1Come now, xyou rich, weep and howl for the ymiseries that are coming upon you. 2zYour riches have rotted and zyour garments are moth-eaten. 3Your gold and silver have corroded, and their corrosion will be evidence against you and will eat your flesh like fire. aYou have laid up treasure bin the last days. 4Behold, cthe wages of the laborers who mowed your fields, which you kept back by fraud, are crying out against you, and dthe cries of the harvesters have reached the ears of ethe Lord of hosts. 5fYou have lived on the earth in luxury and gin self-indulgence. You have fattened your hearts in ha day of slaughter. 6You have condemned and imurdered jthe righteous person. He does not resist you.

Patience in Suffering

7Be patient, therefore, brothers,1 until the coming of the Lord. See how the farmer waits for the precious fruit of the earth, being patient about it, until it receives kthe early and the late rains. 8You also, be patient. lEstablish your hearts, for the coming of the Lord mis at hand. 9Do not grumble against one another, brothers, nso that you may not be judged; behold, othe Judge is standing pat the door. 10As an example of suffering and patience, brothers, take qthe prophets who spoke in the name of the Lord. 11Behold, we consider those blessed who remained steadfast. You have heard of rthe steadfastness of Job, and you have seen sthe purpose of the Lord, how tthe Lord is compassionate and merciful.

12But above all, my brothers, udo not swear, either by heaven or by earth or by any other oath, but let your “yes” be yes and your “no” be no, so that you may not fall under condemnation.

The Prayer of Faith

13Is anyone among you suffering? Let him pray. Is anyone cheerful? Let him vsing praise. 14Is anyone among you sick? Let him call for the elders of the church, and let them pray over him, wanointing him with oil in the name of the Lord. 15And the prayer of faith will save the one who is sick, and the Lord will raise him up. And xif he has committed sins, he will be forgiven. 16Therefore, yconfess your sins to one another and pray for one another, zthat you may be healed. aThe prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.2 17Elijah was a man bwith a nature like ours, and che prayed fervently that it might not rain, and for dthree years and six months it did not rain on the earth. 18eThen he prayed again, and heaven gave rain, and the earth bore its fruit.

19My brothers, fif anyone among you wanders from the truth and someone gbrings him back, 20let him know that whoever brings back a sinner from his wandering hwill save his soul from death and iwill cover a multitude of sins.

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Footnotes
1 5:7 Or brothers and sisters; also verses 9, 10, 12, 19
2 5:16 Or The effective prayer of a righteous person has great power
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